A letter of advice to Kenji

Hey Kenji:
It is not point to get Kathy back if you cannot deal with your emotion. Love is not self-seeking. If you really love her, instead of pitying yourself, why don't you keep your love and actions and wait for her answer. However, you shouldn't be impatient. Give time for each of you to get over it, because you hurt her first and you need to face your inside emotional problem. The point is about being the right kind of person, not about finding the right person. When you are the right kind of person, you will have a much better opportunity of getting Kathy back.

Becky

The nine personal qualities

Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control; all of them are important in a person. But I understand love to be the most essential of all. According to 1 Corinthians 13:1 "If I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong and a clanging cymbal." Last week learned about committed love which was so touched my heart from teacher Mr. Co burn, since my husband and I had fought a couple of days. After wards when I went home that days, I changed my mind to serve him again. He was happy, and I was happy too.
I also think self-control is another important characteristic. Everybody needs a certain a mount of money, property, power, gifts, freedom, wealth, and so on. But if you cannot practice self-control in everything, you cannot have lasting satisfaction. I believe a lot of people who live in Taiwan have learned the lesson from president Mr. Chen.