A letter of advice to Kenji

Hey Kenji:
It is not point to get Kathy back if you cannot deal with your emotion. Love is not self-seeking. If you really love her, instead of pitying yourself, why don't you keep your love and actions and wait for her answer. However, you shouldn't be impatient. Give time for each of you to get over it, because you hurt her first and you need to face your inside emotional problem. The point is about being the right kind of person, not about finding the right person. When you are the right kind of person, you will have a much better opportunity of getting Kathy back.

Becky